Heartsong's Circle
One Witch's musings on magic, and pagan-related current events
Saturday, August 18, 2018
HexFest 2018
I'll be 53 in about a month, and I'm counting down the next 10 years to retirement. Magically not much has changed, but Samhain last year the gods gave me a clear message that after I've "graduated" the current students I'm not under any obligation to them to teach one-on-one training types of stuff anymore.
So now what? What's next for me? I'm not going to just veg out on the couch, after all. I feel like this is my opportunity to let my inner mad scientist out and get back to experimenting with energy and magical techniques. Oh, and herbs! I finally get to start making potions and conquering my fear of green growing things and stop killing houseplants!
But back to HexFest - I'm not going to apologize for rambling. :)
Big thanks to Hoodoo Sen Moise, for these words: "Consistency Builds Power". It made me think about my own practice. And I didn't get the exact wording written down, but he also said "If you're not at least a little afraid of the spirits or deities you're working with, you're not acknowledging their full power. And if you're crippling their power how are they going to make effective change in your life?"
Huge thanks to Lady Rhea Rivera for her talk on Spiritual Baths, or as I like to call it "spiritual hygiene". She said words I've been saying for years - we brush our teeth, wash our hair, and keeping your spirit "clean" is just as important for health and happiness. (Side note, I'm going to try and grow Hyssop)
Leanna Marrama and Sandra Mariah Wright did two talks that I saw, Dream Interpretation and (I forget the title) tea leaf reading. There were things about lucid dreaming and sleep paralysis I hadn't heard before, but the tea leaf workshop was super fun. Not only did they tell us how you do it, they had slides of cups of tea leaves for us to look at. Seeing half the room getting the same things from the tea leaves, including the psychic impressions, was really pretty cool.
Judika Illes did a talk on "Defense Against the Dark Arts", which I wrote in my notes as "Defense Against Malicious Magic" and abbreviated as DAMM. Because Dayum, that was a great session. I took four pages of notes, there was so much information. A whole big section of conversation on the Evil Eye (which I kept writing as Malocchio) and how to guard against it. Think things that will hurt an eyeball, so sharp pointy talismans and a talisman of Medusa (which I'm totally going to get just because it would be super cool to have).
In addition to the great sessions, the good food, the plentiful alcohol, I made new friends. I also got to see my friend Tracey and meet her partner Sarah, which was super awesome.
And there was drama, at HexFest too. Some idiots pushed letters under many of the hotel room doors Friday night telling us some Christian stuff about how we're all evil, and then there were protesters outside on Saturday condemning us (until it rained and then they left). Most of us were in workshops/lectures and didn't know the protest was happening, so it was kind of silly. Those letters though, some people were pretty disturbed, some were afraid of physical repercussions, and most of us were feeling a mix of things including anger. Not so much at the content of the letters, but because having that shoved under your hotel room door is like having it invade your personal, private space. I didn't get a letter, but others around me did and I couldn't help but feel for a few seconds that their names were on some list. Probably not what really happened, but it was an unnerving feeling just the same. Even folks who weren't "freaked out" about the letters are now thinking about when they go next time, will they stay in that hotel or stay somewhere else? Will we be physically safe walking down the street away from the hotel? I'm gay, and in my youth was chased by "gay bashers" walking home from the club. A small part of me is wondering if that sort of thing will start happening in the New Orleans French Quarter now. Probably not, but that thought is out there and I'm sure I'm not the only one.
But aside from that, back to the happier stuff. New friends are awesome, new spiritual directions are awesome. While sitting in the hotel lobby at 2am with my new friends in New Orleans, chatting about magic and laughing together, I realized that here at home I'm not having the community experience I want to have. I don't enjoy going out to public places with folks, because it feels like we can't let our hair down and really talk about things. So I need to start figuring out what to do to have the experiences I really want. Thanks HexFest, for sparking entirely new trains of thought. I can't wait til next year :)
Tuesday, April 4, 2017
The State of things
Sunday, August 16, 2015
The Working Witch
Why, with my 30+ years of experience with magic, ritual, etc. I haven't written a book or founded a tradition, or have dozens of former students and am running groups.
The answer is really simple: I work for a living.
Between work, chores, and owning a home this single witchy guy doesn't really have a lot of free time. If you look at dates on my blog, you'll see just how sporadic it all is. Sure, I have time to fart around on Facebook but that's done in 5-10 increments between doing other things around the house.
Add to that, I'm an introvert, and you'll understand that being around a lot of people just wears me out.
I barely have time/energy to have dinner with friends once a week. And they're all busy too, doing the same things I'm doing.
Yes, I'm still practicing my Craft and observing my holy days and meditating in private, but that's about it. My personal time is spent trying to recharge my batteries from the work day/week and that's about it.
I'm a little envious of the people who have the time and energy to be full-time professional witches. It sounds like a lot more fun than my drudging around the office trying to make other people happy enough to let me keep my job, paycheck, and benefits.
There are so many people in my situation that I'd hazard a guess that we're in the majority in the pagan community. I don't go to a lot of public events because if they're on the weekend, I'm still trying to recover from the work week and I just don't have the energy to spend. Yesterday after running some errands, I came home and had a 2 1/2 hour nap. I'm trying not to take a nap today because I've got a student coming over later, so every time I feel like I'm about to fall asleep I get up and go do something. But in all honesty, I just want to curl up with a good book and alternate between snoozing and reading. If I could have a super power right this minute, I'd change the world so that we had 5-day weekends and 2-day work weeks and keep our paychecks. Maybe then I'd catch up on my rest?
Wednesday, February 25, 2015
Polytheism and Me
Tuesday, February 24, 2015
So, it's been a while
Whether it's in life or inside a magic circle, time is definitely not constant unless you're counting, because life itself is a subjective experience.
In a nutshell, I've been kinda busy. Mostly with work taking up a lot of free time, and I've been doing a lot of soul searching. I've replaced the roof on the house, had to say farewell to my 14 year old furbaby, and been watching too many reruns of Big Bang Theory.
I've had a lot of changes in my perception of friendships lately, too. I'm noticing when I reach out and don't get responses, or if I'm the only person *ever* initiating conversations with friends. Am I being clueless and bugging people, intruding on their lives while they really just view me as a friendly pest? Would they even notice if I just stopped trying?
I'm turning 50 this year. While I don't feel the urge to go dashing out and buying a red sports car, I am noticing my awareness of my own mortality changing. I'm not sitting around in fear of it, nor am I embracing it. I do know that it's going to be here eventually, and I'm at that point where I want to maximize the positive mark I can leave on the world before I go.
It was never my intention that this blog have thousands of followers. In the pagan blogosphere, I'm an absolute nobody and that's been fine with me. So many people write better, more eloquently, on topics that they spend time researching that all I can do is read and applaud. The idea of becoming some form of "big name pagan" is just abhorrent. It's been a big part of why the blog has been so silent, but maybe now it's just time I use it as an outlet and stop trying to "measure up to the big bloggers", which I may have unconsciously been doing.
I've seen how the public treats its celebrities, and fame is both fleeting and unkind. The minute you're out of the spotlight, the false friends fall away and you're left wondering if any of your friendships were ever real. It's like that *being* friends with celebrities too. Before Teo Bishop "came out" as Matt Morrison, I thought we'd established a friendship. After his big reveal, he treated me like any other fanboy and stopped interacting with me. When he left paganism and went back to his "home" religion, he not only cut ties with me on Facebook, but I was blocked from even sending a message of support to him. Frankly, it was upsetting.
I think it's time I just stop wasting my time chasing after people who make it clear they don't want to be friends with me. No ill will of course, but I've got more productive things to do with my time and energy than spend it on people who don't make time for me, and blow me off repeatedly.
I've got stories to tell, songs to write, plants to nurture, and spells to cast. I'm not going to waste time attempting to make other people happy, the real magic is only going to come from a happier me, so that's what I need to focus on. Life should be fun, and I haven't been doing enough of the "fun" things in life.
Peace out, witches.
Thursday, May 29, 2014
Delicious Spirituality
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZtR43MIkII
I watched it a few times, because it made me laugh. But then it got me thinking…
Sunday, April 6, 2014
Anti-theism vs. Atheism and Witchcraft
Wednesday, February 19, 2014
Salvaging Power
I woke up from a wild dream this morning featuring a fictional character I’m developing, and he was sitting in a coffee shop across the street from an evangelical church. The church was having one of those big “stir everybody up” sort of sermons about the evils of homosexuality and liberalism, and my gay pagan character shifted into Oversight to watch the energy build, and then began siphoning it away to use for his own purposes.
As I was showering and getting ready for work, I started thinking about the possibilities involved in actually doing what the character in the dream was doing. Salvaging psychic/magical power out of something like that, passing it through a filter to neutralize the intent that generated it, and directing the energy into something positive for the earth, or for society.
Let’s face it, most churchgoers today don’t believe in psychic power or energy except as something devil-related and while they may generate a lot of it, they don’t send it anywhere. You’d have to be detached enough from your emotions to effectively filter it, and make it “neutral” energy, but in theory it should be possible. And wouldn’t that be kind of a riot? Using the energy people like Westboro Baptist raise in hate to fuel magic to do some good in the world just seems deliciously ironic to me. Maybe a little wicked, too.
What the heck, embrace the wicked wonderfulness within and see what happens.
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Back to Basics: Casting the Circle
- Planning the space: Assuming all of your ritual “stuff” is set up and in place, you have to decide where the circle boundaries are going to be. If you’re working with others, discuss the boundaries before beginning in case some of them can’t perceive the energy well enough (yet) to keep from crossing the circle. Because things come up unexpectedly, always plan where a temporary door into/out of your circle may need to be. Due to the layout of my living room, that can only be in the South or Southeast, for example.
- First breath, Ground and center: Take a deep breath, let the tension flow out of you down to the center of the Earth, and as you inhale focus on your heartbeat to make you fully present in your head with the energy of the Earth filling you up.
- Second breath, Open to the sky: Make sure your crown chakra is open to the moon, the stars, the sun and breathe that stellar energy in to mix with the Earth energy in your solar plexus.
- Third breath, Turn it up: Basically, as you inhale the third breath picture the Earth and Stellar energies making you glow brighter and brighter, then set your breathing on automatic and keep that image in your head.
- Anchoring the circle: Choose your starting point. I like starting/ending my circle in the North, because that’s the direction of Earth for me and that’s where all things come from. You may choose something different, and if it works well for you that’s fine, but you have to start/end casting the circle in the same place, or it isn’t a circle at all.
- Begin casting: I’m going to remind you that you’ve charged yourself up with energy, so here’s where you start using it. Keep in mind, that while you’re casting the circle you are still also charging yourself up so you shouldn’t feel depleted when you’re finished.
- Whether using your hand or a ritual tool to direct the energy, start a stream of energy flowing to the starting point and leave it hanging in mid-air as you move your hand to draw the line of energy, and step to the right. Go all the way around the room, maintaining the flow of energy from the earth/stars into your body, down your hand, and into the circle.
- Tie it off: As you’ve moved around the room leaving the energy for the circle behind you and replenishing yourself from the cosmos, you will come back to your starting point. I like to draw that last bit of the circle into an infinity loop, the final stroke of which will connect it to the point I started from. In my mind, this keeps the energy moving while I am not the source of it.
- Finishing: By the time you’ve tied off with your infinity knot, you should feel the change ripple through the space like the rings on a pond after tossing a pebble in.
- Break it: Yep, some people cut the circle with an athame and declare the space open, letting the energy disperse.
- Suck it up: Some people are more comfortable drawing the energy of the circle into a tool for “storage” to be used in the next ritual.
- Earth it: Some folks will uncast the circle directing the energy into the Earth.
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Grief for Pagans
Grief and depression can have a negative impact on your immune system. Physically, you need to also make sure you're eating nutritious food with good vitamin content as well as staying adequately hydrated and getting enough sleep.
Sunday, December 29, 2013
Introspection – Are YOU a Pagan Nutbag?
- You have any secret self-description that basically amounts to “Chosen One”.
- You refer to non-pagans as “mortals”.
- You believe that only you (plus perhaps a chosen few) are holding back an extra-dimensional invasion of evil magic alien beings in flying black saucers.
- You think that your spiritual evolution (or lack thereof) is unaffected by the health of the very real body you live in.
- You think that you have “conquered” any emotion.
- You tell people that you’re the reincarnation of any famous person.
- You count goldfish, crystals, and infants as members of your coven.
- You spend so much time telling others how to live the perfect pagan life that you don’t ever meditate or so much as light a candle yourself.
- You spend so much energy criticizing others you have none left for your own growth.
- You tell people you’re cavorting with faerie lords by moonlight when you’re really just drunk off your ass and trying not to fall down in the dark.
- Your list of problems is longer than your list of skills or accomplishments, and you blame your lack of spiritual progress on being a sensitive empath.
- You author a blog or host a podcast that no one reads or listens to, and you think you are an important voice in the community without being able to use two and too correctly in a sentence.
- You insist that although on this plane of existence you’re on permanent disability, in another reality you’re the queen of everything and so people should feel privileged to kiss your ring (made from an old coat hanger) and bring you offerings of food.
- You insist that everything, in all its forms, is for the greater good. That’s just twaddle and you know it. Sometimes things suck.
- You insist that only the darker side of life is powerful. Twaddle again, life isn’t monochromatic. It’s a freaking rainbow, deal with it.
- Make friends you can trust and be honest with. Good friends are going to tell you when you’re edging too close to the line of professional nutbag.
- Regular spiritual practice. The simplest acts, like meditating daily and journaling privately, can help you stay in touch with reality.
- Get off your butt. Go outside and garden, go for walks, volunteer at something that helps others. Getting outdoors in fresh air, interacting with non-pagans and getting away from the computer will help keep you grounded.
- Eat healthy. I’m not saying you have to adhere to some strict diet, but keep the processed foods & sugars to a minimum and eat fresh fruits/veggies and you’ll stay grounded more solidly with less effort.
- Cut back on the fiction. Really, reading is fun. It should be. All work and no play makes a dull pagan, but overdosing on fiction is a fast route to living in fantasy land.
- Be creative. Learn to cook something new, knit or crochet, sew, paint, draw, sculpt… something that engages your right brain actively and creates something physical. You get to use your creative juices for something constructive this way, without it dragging you into nutbaghood.
- Get some counseling. Hey, reality slips for everyone sometimes, and if your friends are avoiding you or telling you you’re nuts, get a professional opinion. Worst case scenario, you’ll get some therapy or medicine to help you with a serious condition, or they’ll say you’re fine and not to worry so much.
Monday, October 28, 2013
Sigils Made Simple
Soak light blue thread in the potion. Bless and consecrate it.
Take a hat that has a band of fabric around the inside of it. Purify it.
Sew sigils for mental clarity, focus, insight into that band using the herb-infused light blue thread. Bless and consecrate the hat.
There, now you've made a thinking cap.
Sunday, September 15, 2013
Dancing Your Talk
Sunday, August 25, 2013
Sacred Music
Sunday, August 4, 2013
Magic as Science – or at least Pseudo-Science
Sunday, July 14, 2013
Failed Expectations – When Icons Fall
- Don't form energetic attachments to public figures.
- Don't form attachments to anyone in order to avoid disappointment.
- Love everyone indiscriminately.
Sunday, June 16, 2013
Worship - It doesn't mean what you think it means
1 honor or respect felt or shown : deference; especially : profound adoring awed respect